Summer in Western North Carolina brings a sense of ease. The flip-flops come out, drinks get chilled, and weekends fill up with one thing: backyard BBQs. Whether you’re in Asheville, Hendersonville, or somewhere in between, the warm weather invites everyone outdoors.
If you’re planning to host a BBQ this season, don’t worry about having a sprawling yard, designer furniture, or top-notch grilling skills. What you really need is tasty food, a few comfortable spots to sit, and an atmosphere that encourages your friends to stick around and enjoy themselves.
Here are 8 easy tips to help you throw a BBQ that your friends will remember—without adding unnecessary stress to your day.
1. Set the mood, not a theme
There’s no need to go overboard with decorations. String up some lights, create a playlist that matches the vibe (classic rock, country, or anything that feels summery), and light a few candles or lanterns as the sun sets. That’s all it takes to make your backyard feel warm and inviting.
Bonus tip: If you enjoy music, invite your guests to contribute their favorite summer songs ahead of time. Everyone loves hearing a familiar tune play during a gathering.
2. Keep the menu simple
You don’t have to go gourmet. Stick to a few reliable favorites—burgers, hot dogs, grilled veggies, and maybe some chicken or ribs. A couple of solid side dishes (think pasta salad, fresh watermelon, or corn on the cob) will do the trick. Another great idea? Set up DIY food stations where your friends can customize their meals—consider a taco bar, pasta bar, or slider bar. And don’t forget to check for any food allergies or dietary restrictions among your guests.
Pro tip: Choose items you can prepare ahead of time so you’re not juggling a million tasks when guests arrive.
3. Do the prep before people arrive
If you find yourself constantly running back into the kitchen or flipping burgers while everyone else is enjoying the party, you’re not really hosting—you’re just working. Chop your veggies, season your meat, and set up a self-serve drink station before the first knock at the door. This way, you can relax and enjoy the gathering too.
4. You don’t need matching patio furniture
Don’t stress if your outdoor seating doesn’t look like something out of a magazine. Mix and match chairs, throw down a few picnic blankets, or even bring out indoor stools or benches if needed. Guests just need a place to sit and chat while they enjoy their food.
Also, make sure there’s at least one shady spot if it’s a hot day. Even if you don’t have any trees, umbrellas or pop-up tents can make a significant difference in keeping things cool.
5. Think about what the kids (and grown-ups) will do
If families are coming, set out a few easy games—think volleyball, sidewalk chalk, or a sprinkler for the kids to run through. For the adults, lawn games like cornhole or giant Jenga are always a hit. And s’mores over a fire pit? That’s a classic that never disappoints.
You don’t need a strict agenda, but having activities keeps the energy up and gives everyone a reason to linger a little longer.
6. Plan ahead for bugs
Nothing ruins a backyard gathering like mosquitoes. Light a few citronella candles, have bug spray on hand, and keep food covered when it’s out on the table. A small fan near the table can help too—bugs dislike wind, and your guests will appreciate the breeze.
7. Don’t worry about decorations
Honestly, you don’t need elaborate decorations. A clean yard, some colorful napkins or paper plates, and a few fresh flowers in jars are more than enough. Nobody’s grading your hosting skills; they’re just happy to be invited.
8. Send people off with a little something (if you want to)
This is totally optional, but it’s always appreciated: send guests home with a small snack, drink, or leftover treat. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy—just a slice of pie wrapped in foil or a to-go cup of lemonade is a nice way to say thanks for coming.
Bottom line? Keep it easy.
The best backyard BBQs aren’t about perfection—they’re about creating a comfortable atmosphere where people can laugh, enjoy seconds, and linger long after the sun sets. So if you’re hosting this summer, don’t stress about making everything picture-perfect. Just aim for relaxed, a little messy, and a lot of fun.
